Expressive face woes

Oh boy I do not wanna upload my damn FACE to Reddit but here we are. 34F nearly 35.

I am burdened with a very expressive face. I feel like I have a lot of skin and it is catching up with me. I want a cute tight face that everyone else seems to have 😩

I’ve always had under eye folds (I guess not ‘wrinkles’ as I’ve had them since I was a kid) which are horribly pronounced when I laugh/smile. They‘re starting to turn downwards as you can see. Also deep crows feet. My eyes generally turn downwards and eyelids fold in when I laugh/smile and it makes me SO self conscious even when I’m alone. FML.

My face at rest has no real eye lines/wrinkles (see next photo) but my face is never at rest lol - expressive face syndrome.

I’m not on a mission to never move my face or have 0 wrinkles but I would like to lessen this if I can. I’m scared of filler (or anything really but especially filler). Would botox help the crows feet and downturned edges? Would anything else help?

Thanks!